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The death has occurred of

Tommy Phelan

Woodside, Queens, New York and formerly of Cranagh, Templetuohy.

Died peacefully on the 13th of April 2022. 

Deeply regretted by his son Conor, Debbie, Fiona. Sisters Mary and Josephine, brother Gerard, sisters in law, brother in law, nieces, nephews, relatives and large circle of friends at home and abroad.

Memorial Mass for Tommy will take place this Sunday 8th May at 11 a.m (6am New York time ) . in The Sacred Heart Church, Templetuohy, followed by interment of Tommy’s ashes in Templeree Cemetery.

Tommy’s Memorial Mass may be viewed by clicking here.

May he Rest in Peace. 

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  1. Joe russell...templetuohy

    So sorry to hear of Tommy’s death…as kids growing up we had some times…the best of times…rest in peace buddy.

  2. Michael Lowry TD

    I extend my sincere condolences to the members of the Phelan family, to their extended family members and many friends and to all who mourn the passing of Tommy.

    May his soul rest in eternal peace.

  3. Patrick and Bernie Fogarty and Family Templetuohy.

    Sincere Sympathy to Gérard and all the Phelan Family at this Sad time, May Tommy Rest in Peace,

  4. Lorelei Fitzgerald

    So sorry to hear of Tommy’s passing. I have so many great memories of all of us in the Horse and Jockey. May he RIP 😞

  5. David Ryan

    Sincere sympathy to you Josephine, Niamh and all your family on the death of your brother and uncle.
    May Tommy rest in peace and that ye find comfort at this sad time.
    David Ryan

  6. Judith Hogan

    So sorry to hear of the sad passing of Tommy. Sincere sympathy to all the Phelan Families. May his gentle soul Rest In Peace.

  7. Diarmuid Everard

    Sincere sympathies to the Phelan family on your sad loss. May he Rest in Peace.

  8. Kay and Richard Phelan

    Sincere sympathy to Debbie Conor and all the Phelan family on the sad passing of Tommy. May he rest in peace. Kay and Richard Phelan.

  9. Richard & Bridget Fogarty

    Sorry to hear of Tommy sad passing. Sympathies to the phelan families
    May he rest in peace.

  10. Jackie Cahill T D

    Sincere sympathy to the Phelan family on the sad passing of Tommy. May his gentle soul rest in peace

  11. Dolores Metcalfe Rosta

    Sincere sympathies to Debbie. Conor and all the Phelan family on the passing of Tommy. May he Rest In Peace

  12. Michael and Anne Taylor, The Mall, Templemore.

    Sincere sympathy to all the Phelan family on Tommy’s passing. May he rest in peace.

  13. Mary Sweeney ex Woodside

    Sympathy to Debbie Conor and the extended Phelan family may Tommy rest in peace

  14. Sean And Myra O’Dea Clonmeen

    Sincerest Sympathies to Ger, Noreen And all the Phelan family on Tommy’s sad passing. May he rest in peace

  15. Paudie &. Michelle Everard

    I am very sorry to hear of Tommy’s death. Good memories back in the day . May his soul rest in peace. Our sympathies to his family and the Phelan family.

  16. Eamonn and Angela Brennan castleiney

    Sincere sympathy to Mary, Josie, Gerry and all of Tommy family on his sad passing. May he rest in peace

  17. Paddy and Margaret Moran

    Sincere sympathy to Mary, Josie, Ger and all the Phelan family on Tommy’s sad passing. May his gentle soul rest in peace.

  18. Seamus Ryan, Killarney.

    Tommy, such a nice guy, and his family were very welcoming when I moved to America, extending the warm hand of friendship guidance and help right away. Great memories and nights down the years. My Deepest Condolences to Debbie and Conor. May the soul of Tommy Phelan Rest forever in Eternal Peace.

  19. Catherine and Paul doyle dublin

    So sorry for your loss mary and all phelan family

  20. Bernie Bermingham

    Very saddened to learn of Tommys passings. Many good times were had in Woodside. Rest in peace Tommy. Bernie and Peter Bermingham . Westmeath.

  21. Mary Delaney Newtown Clonard Mountrath

    Deepest sympathy Gerry, Josie, Mary and the extended Phelan Family on the passing of Tommy . May he rest in peace.

  22. John & Catherine Rafter, Boherard Clough Ballacolla,

    Deepest sympathy to Gerry, Mary , Josie and the extended Phelan Family on the passing of Tommy. May he rest in peace .

  23. Pat and Mary Healy Longfordpass

    Sincere sympathy to the Phelan family on the death of Tommy RIP.

  24. Sara and Farhan Niazi (formerly of Woodside, Queens)

    To Debbie and Conor, so sorry to hear of Tommy’s passing, may he Rest In Peace.

  25. Anthony & Mary Merrigan Thurles

    Sincere sympathy to Ger, Mary, Josie and all the Phelan family on the loss of Tommy. May he rest in peace

  26. Tommy Foy & Family, Cooleeney, Moyne.

    Deepest sympathy to Tommy’s family and all the Phelan’s on your sad loss. I have great memories of our days growing up at home and all the laughs we had.
    Rest in Peace Tommy.

  27. Jimmy and Josephine Maher and family, Kyledellig Rathdowney

    Sincere sympathy to Gerard Noreen and all the Phelan family on the passing of Tommy. May his soul rest in peace

  28. BILLY AND BERRI STAPLETON KYLEMAKILL MOYNE

    Sincere sympathy to Ger Jo and Mary and all the Phelan family RIP Tommy

  29. Paddy, Mary Walsh & family

    Sincere sympathies to Ger and the Phelan family on the death of Tommy. May he rest in peace

  30. Tom & Kathleen Maher

    Sincere sympathy to Ger, Josephine, Mary, the immediate and extended Phelan family on the death of Tommy. R.I.P.

  31. Paddy & Anne O Dea CLonmeen Errill

    Sincere Sympathy to the Phelan family on the passing of Tommy
    May he rest in peace

  32. John & Martine Moloney,Lisdonowley,Moyne

    Deepest sympathy to the Phelan family on the passing of Tommy.May he rest in peace.

  33. Declan Allen

    Very sad to hear of Tommys passing. Thinking of the good times we had around home and in Rathmines when we were young lads.
    Sincere condolences to his family Rest easy old friend.

  34. Pat,Grace Fanning and family

    Our deepest sympathy to Ger,Noreen and all the Phelan family on the sad and untimely passing of Tommy. RIP.

  35. John & Mary Fogarty Dublin and Crannagh

    Sincere Sympathies to the The Phelan family on the sad passing of Tommy. May he Rest In Peace

  36. John,Martina,Aoife & Mark Scanlon

    Sincere Sympathy to Ger,Noreen,Mary,Josephine and the extended Phelan families on the sad passing of Tommy
    May he Rest in Peace

  37. Michael Fogarty Longfordpass Urlingford.

    Deepest sympathy to Tommy’s family at home and the U.S. Very fond memories of the great times we all had as kids growing up in Crannagh. May you rest in peace, Tommy, my friend.

  38. Tony and Joan Leahy Templetuohy

    Deepest sympathy to Ger, Noreen and all Phelan family on Tommy’s sad passing. May he rest in peace

  39. John and Catherine Mullally and Family Clonakenny

    Sincere sympathies to Gerrry, Noreen and all the Phelan family on Tommy’s Death. May he Rest in Peace

  40. Josephine Conlon (née Kelly) formely Woodside

    Deepest sympathy to Debbie & Conor on Tommy’s passing, May he Rest In Peace 🙏🏻

  41. Margaret Spillane Kingswell Tipperary Town

    Sincere sympathy to Josephine and all the Phelan family on the death of Tommy,May he Rest In Peace

  42. Jim Eileen Jim and Henry Maher Loughmore

    Deepest sympathy to all of Tommy ‘s family. Always a great friend of mine in our school days in Templemore CBS 1975 onwards .Jim Maher.

  43. Ger and deirdre ryan

    Deepest sympathy to ger noreen and all the phelan family on the sad passing of tommy.may he rest in peace.

  44. Catherine Ryan & Family, Dublin & Australia

    Our thoughts and sincere sympathy go out to Conor, Debbie and the extended Phelan Family on the death of Tommy. May he rest in peace.

  45. Mary Walsh Dualla

    Sincere sympathy to Josie and family and extended families on the passing of your brother. May he rest in peace.

  46. James and Kathleen Kiely

    SINCERE SYMPATHY TO THE PHELAN FAMILY ON THE PASSING OF TOMMY (RIP)
    JAMES AND KATHLEEN KIELY ROSCREA ROAD TEMPLEMORE

  47. Lorna Leahy @ family, Templetuohy

    Sincere sympathy to Gerry, Mary Josephine and the extended families on the death of Tommy. May he Rest In Peace.

  48. James and Nora Stretton.

    Our sincere sympathy to Debbie and Conor, Fiona, sisters Mary and Josephine, brother Gerard and extended families on the death of Tommy.
    May his gentle soul Rest in Peace.

  49. Rose Leahy and family Templemore

    Sincere sympathy to the Phelan family on the death of Tommy may he rest in peace

  50. Lorna Leahy @ family Templetuohy

    Sincere sympathy to Gerry, Mary, Josephine and the extended family on the death of Tommy.. May he Rest In Peace.

  51. Michael and Mary McDonnell Templetuohy

    Our deepest sympathy to Gerry, Noreen Phelan and family on the death of Tommy may he rest in peace

  52. Lorna Leahy & family, Templetuohy

    Sincere sympathy to Gerry, Mary and Josephine and extended families on the sad passing of Tommy. May he Rest in Peace.

  53. James and Nora Stretton.

    Our sincere sympathy to Debbie and Conor, Fiona, Sisters Mary and Josephine brother Gerard and to All The extended families on the death of Tommy.
    May his gentle soul Rest in Peace.

  54. Ryan Family, Toomevara

    Our deepest sympathies to Conor, Debbie, Gerry, Mary & Josie on the untimely passing of your Dad & brother Tommy Phelan. May he have eternal rest in his heavenly home.
    To the extended members of the Phelan Family we offer our sincere condolences!
    I like many have great memories of Tommy growing up around Lisheen & Templetouhy. God rest his soul.
    Jim, Margaret Ryan & family,
    Toomevara (Lisheen)

  55. Ryan Family, Toomevara

    Our deepest sympathies to Conor, Debbie, Gerry, Mary & Josie on the untimely passing of your Dad & brother Tommy Phelan.
    May Tommy’s soul be at peace in his eternal home.
    We send our condolences to the extended families of Tommy at this sad time.
    I have many fond memories of Tommy & The Phelan family in my younger days growing up around Lisheen & Templetouhy…… May God rest them all. Thinking & praying for you all at this time.

    Jim, Margaret Ryan & Family Toomevara (Lisheen).

  56. Joe & Eileen Butler Clonmel

    Sincere sympathy to the Phelan family on the death of Tommy . May he rest in peace

  57. John & Marie Brennan , Castleiney .

    Sincere sympathy to Gerard , Noreen and extended Phelan family on the sad passing of Tommy . May his gentle soul Rest In Peace .

  58. Helen O' Sullivan. (Navillus)

    Sincere Sympathy to Debbie, Conor and Phelan family on the death of Tommy.
    Eternal rest to his soul.

  59. Breda Murphy, cahersiveen. Co Kerry.

    Deepest sympathies to Debbie, Conor and extended family and friends on the death of Tommy. may he rest in peace.

  60. Diarmaid Grant Centenary Thurles Co op

    My condolences to Ger and family on the death of Tommy. RIP

  61. Anonymous

    Deepest condolences to Debbie, Conor and family on the loss of Tommy. May he rest in peace. Michael and Catherine Keane Castlegregory, Co. KERRY

  62. Michael and Catherine keane, Castlegregory

    Deepest condolences to Debbie and Conor and family on the loss of Tommy. May he Rest in peace. Michael and Catherine keane castlegregory co. Kerry

  63. Joe kelly

    My sincere sympathy to the Phelan family on your loss.

  64. John & Marie Brennan , Castleiney .

    Sincere sympathy to Ger , Noreen , and Phelan family on the sad passing of Tommy . May his gentle soul rest in eternal peace .

  65. Joe & Maureen Kennedy, Templetuohy

    Sincere Sympathy to Ger, Noreen and all the extended Phelan family. May Tommy Rest in Peace.

  66. Mary T Mc Cormack, Thurles, Tipperary

    Deepest Sympathies to all Phelan’s in Templetuohy on the sad loss of Tommy. May he Rest in Peace ✝️

  67. Helen & Dan O'Sullivan Dromeragh Dromid/Cahersiveen Co. Kerry.

    We offer our heartfelt sympathies to Debbie Conor , Tommy ‘s sisters and brother together with extended family members friends and relatives on the passing of Tommy To eternal life. May his kind and gentle soul rest in eternal peace in his heavenly 🙏 home & may his loved ones be given courage hope and strength to grieve their loss of Tommy.

  68. Breda O'Connell,Emlagh,Ballinskelligs, Co.Kerry

    Deepest Sympathy to Debbie, Conor and all the Phelan Family, relatives and friends on the sad passing of Tommy. May his gentle soul Rest In Peace.

  69. Joe O Connell Loughmore

    Deepest sympathy to all the Phelan family in Ireland and New York on the sad passing of Tommy
    May he rest in peace

  70. Paul Murray queens New York

    RIP Tommy condolences to Debbie ,Conor , Fiona , family and friends

  71. Paul Murray QUEENS

    RIP TOMMY CONDOLENCES TO DEBBIE,CONOR ,FIONA , FAMILY AND FRIENDS

  72. Dan and Catherine Egan, Templemore

    Sincere sympathy to the Phelan families on the passing of Tommy. Rest in peace.

  73. Tom and Josephine Treacy Laha

    Sincere sympathy to Gerry Noreen and all the Phelan family on the sad death of Tommy. May he rest in peace.

  74. John and Maura Loughane

    Condolences to all the Phelan family on the death of Tommy R.I.P.

  75. Aidan and Carmel Deegan, Templetuohy

    Sincere Sympathy to Ger, Noreen and all the Phelan families on the passing of Tommy.
    May he Rest in Peace

  76. Cathal kenny..

    Sincere condolences to Debbie, Connor and the extended Phelan family.
    The were good times and good laughs Mr Tom. Rest In Peace my friend.

  77. Tom & Aine Maher and family Longorchard

    Sincere sympathy to the Phelan family on the sad passing of Tommy. May he Rest in Peace

  78. The Wasserstein Family

    Sincere condolences on the loss of
    Tommy Phelan.

  79. John, Anne Ryan and family Toher Templetuohy

    Our Sincere Sympathies to the Phelan family at this sad time Rest In Peace Tommy 🙏

  80. Kevin Shaughnessy

    Sincere sympathy to Tommy’s family. Rest in peace.

    Kevin & Kay Shaughnessy

  81. Mattie & Lena Shortall & Family

    Sincere Sympathy to Gerry, Josie, Mary and all the Phelan Family on the sad passing of Tommy May He Rest In Peace

  82. Patricia Brophy, Borris in Ossory

    My deepest sympathy to Tommy’s family in New York, & Ger, Mary and Josie and all the extended Phelan family on the sad passing of Tommy. May he Rest in Peace.

  83. Jamie & Anne Gallagher - Middle Village, NY

    Sincere condolences to Debbie, Conor and the entire Phelan family on your sad loss. May Tommy Rest In Peace.

  84. Martina O'Dowd

    Condolences To Debbie, Conor and the Phelan family.
    May Tommy rest in peace 💔 🙏
    Bernard Martina O’Dowd and family
    Woodside NY

  85. Bernie & Brian Crehan, Middle Village NY

    So sorry for your loss Debbie and Conor, May Tommy Rest in Peace

  86. Ciannait Ní Riain Uí Broin

    My Deepest Sympathy Ciannait Ní Riain Uí Broin and Family Ballinroe Castlieny

  87. Kieran and Dolores Phelan Clonin Mountrath.

    Sincere Sympathy to the Phelan Family at this very Sad time on the Passing of Tommy ,May he Rest in Peace.

  88. Tommy.Gerry Marren and Mary Fallon Marren.

    To Debbie and Conor and all the Phelan family.So sorry to hear if the sad passing of Tommy. What a pleasant man.Great memories of Tommy in our second home in Woodside.The Horse and Jockey.Rest in peace Tommy.Gerry Marren and Mary Fallon Marren.

  89. Dan &Kathleen Meehan Dromard, Clonmore.

    Sincere sympathy to the Phelan family on the sad passing of Tommy. May his gentle soul rest in peace.

  90. Marion John Curran and family valentia Island Co Kerry

    Deepest Sympathy to Debbie and Conor on your sad loss May his soul Rest in Peace

  91. Johnny @ Mary Byrnes Golden Co Tipperary

    We extend our Deepest Sympathy to all The Phelan Family on The sad Passing of Tommy may He Rest In Peace.

  92. Ashling and Leonie.

    Rest in peace Tommy, very sad to hear this new. Condolences to Debbie and Conor., and family. Fond memories Ashling and Leonie.

  93. Maria Heuston

    Josephine and family, So sorry to hear about your brother
    May the light of Heaven Shine on him may he rest in peace.

  94. Hugh and Marie Coghlan Templetuohy

    Sincere sympathy to Mary, Josie, Ger and Noreen and Phelan family.
    Mat Tommy’s gentle soul Rest in Peace

  95. Hugh and Marie Coghlan Templetuohy

    Sincere sympathy to Mary, Josie, Ger, Noreen and Phelan family.
    May Tommy’s gentle soul Rest in Peace

  96. Hugh and Marie Coghlan Templetuohy

    Sincere sympathy to Mary, Josie, Ger, Noreen and Phelan family.
    May Tommy’s gentle soul Rest in Peace.

  97. Mary Flannery

    Sincere Sympathy to Debbie, and Conor, on the sad passing of Tommy R. I. P. I Knew Tommy when I lived in New York.Sincerely, Mary Flannery, Cangort Park, Shinrone, Birr, Co Offaly.

  98. Eamon and Helen Forde.

    So sorry to hear of Tommy’s passing. Sincere sympathies and condolences to Debbie, Conor and the Phelan family.
    May he rest in peace.

  99. John &Geraldine Buckley

    John &Geraldine Buckley. Buttevant.cork.deepest sympathy to all the Phelan family on the death of Tommy. May Tommy rest in peace 🙏.

  100. Michael &Mary O Sullivan Laharn South Cahirciveen Co Kerry

    Debbie Conor and all the Phelan family we would like to offer you all our deepest sympathy on the sad passing of Tommy May he rest in peace in his new home in heaven with all the angels and Saints

  101. Michael & Mary Casur Laharn South Cahirciveen Co Kerry

    We offer you Debbie Conor our deepest sympathy on the untimely passing of Tommy May his gentle soul rest in peace in his new home in heaven with all the angels and Saints

  102. TJ & Kay Everard, Lisheen

    Our sympathy to all the Phelan family on the death of Tommy. May he Rest In Peace

  103. Helen & Mike Kissane Cahirsiveen Co.Kerry.

    So sorry to hear the sad passing of Tommy our sincere sympathy to you Debbie , Conor , all the Phelan family & his many friends .Thinking of you all . May his gentle soul rest in peace.

  104. Ann & Dan ONeill Lettercastle.

    Deepest sympathy to Debbie Conor and all the Phelan family on the sad passing of Tommy. May he rest in peace

  105. Bridget & Paddy Sullivan, Tarmans, Waterville.

    Deepest sympathy to Debbie Conor and Phelan family on the sad passing of Tommy.May he rest in peace.

  106. Marian O Sullivan & Family , Ballinskelligs

    Sincere sympathy to Conor , Debbie , Fiona and all Tommys family .
    May he rest in peace .

  107. Bernard and Geraldine Mccarthy Cahirciveen

    Sincere sympathy to All Tommy’s family and friends .May he rest in peace .

  108. Marian Quinlan Curtin & Dave Curtin Templetuohy

    Sincere condolences to the members of the Phelan family, to their extended family members and many friends and to all who mourn the passing of Tommy.

    May his soul rest in eternal peace.

  109. Patrick & Mary Golden, Cahersiveen. Kerry

    Sincere sympathy to Debbie, Conor and all the Phelan family at this sad time. May Tommy rest in peace

  110. Fr. Joe Egan, Boherlahan-Dualla

    My sincere sympathy to Mary, Josephine, Gerard and all the Phelan family on the death of Tommy R.I.P. I am unable to attend his Requiem Mass this Sunday but I will remember him in my Masses and prayers. United in faith and friendship. Fr. Joe Egan, Boherlahan-Dualla.

  111. Danny Bridie Emmett and Pearse

    Deepest Condolences to All of Tommy’s Family in Ireland.
    Tommy will be sadly missed coming and going to the house
    Danny Bridie
    Emmett and Pearse

  112. Mark & Amelia Kelly

    Sincere sympathy to all the Phelan family on the passing of Tommy.
    May he rest in peace.

  113. Lena Stretton & family Cahersiveen

    Sincere sympathy to Debbie, Conor and all the extended families on your sad loss of Tommy.
    May his soul Rest In Peace.